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The Risk Your Exec Team Isn’t Talking About (But Should Be)

July 28, 2025

By Michelle Arieta

The danger isn’t what your exec team is debating—it’s what they’re avoiding.

I’ve sat in too many boardrooms where the biggest issue wasn’t disagreement—it was the unwillingness to name it.

The riskiest things are often the least visible on a dashboard

Dashboards track churn, burn, and CAC. But they don’t track:

  • The two execs who haven’t spoken directly in weeks
  • The slow creep of mistrust between Product and Sales
  • The mounting confusion around who owns cross-functional initiatives

These aren’t people's problems. They’re alignment problems. And they become operational risks fast.

Founders often over-index on metrics and miss the social signals—trust erosion, narrative drift, or passive resistance. 

But those signals carry just as much risk as a missed revenue target.

At Polaris Pathways, we’ve worked with leadership teams where surface-level calm masked deep internal friction. In some cases, structured alignment work rebuilt trust and sped up decision-making. In others, the clarity alone helped execs reframe how they led together.

If you don’t talk about it, your team will feel it anyway

Misalignment at the top leaks everywhere:

  • Middle managers get conflicting directions
  • Teams hedge bets instead of committing
  • Decisions slow down or worse, get made twice

Execs think they’re “protecting the team” by working through things privately. But silence is not protection. It’s confusion by another name.

Here is the painful truth: The longer tension goes unnamed, the more your team creates its own stories. 

And once a narrative takes hold, it’s hard to unwind—especially when silence has been the norm.

Give a quick read to this article to learn how to align your team for ultimate success: How to Use the McKinsey 7S Model to Align Your Business for Long-Term Success

Alignment is a system—not a single conversation

Misalignment doesn’t just create confusion—it makes scale brittle. 

When teams second-guess decisions or duplicate work, you’re not growing—you’re drifting.

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You don’t get aligned once. You stay aligned through:

  • Clear decision rights and roles
  • Real feedback loops (even when they’re uncomfortable)
  • Structured forums to check, reset, and re-align

If you haven’t had a disagreement lately, you’re not leading. You’re posturing.

We unpack more signs of invisible misalignment in Lessons from the Frontlines: A Week in the Life of a Fractional CPO.

— Michelle

Before you go, a few questions to sit with:

  1. What’s a tension you’ve been avoiding naming at the exec level?
  2. Where are conflicting narratives quietly derailing execution?
  3. If your exec team modeled your culture—what would people assume matters most?

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